Simple Tips for Communicating

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Simple Tips for Women Dealing with Men:

  1. Promote yourself
  2. Avoid tag endings
  3. Be direct and concise
  4. Don’t take male comments so personally
  5. Make acknowledgements direct and simple

Simple Tips for Men Dealing with Women:

  1. Build rapport
  2. Avoid monopolising conversations
  3. Respect her abilities
  4. Don’t lecture
  5. Be specific with praise

To Manage Martians: DO

  • Do allow them to work on their own
  • Do motivate them by appealing to their ability to get the job done- the hero factor
  • Do praise and reinforce them by appreciating the TASKS
  • Do manage their stress by allowing ‘cave time’ and /or simple and quick criteria for what needs to be corrected.
  • Do act as if you trust he will succeed

To Manage Martians: DON’T

  • Don’t offer unsolicited or too much advice/help
  • Don’t focus too much on fleshing out all of the potential problems of a situation
  • Don’t manage stress by asking him to talk about it
  • Don’t act as if you do not trust he will succeed

To Manage Venusians: DO

  • Do allow for more collaborative work
  • Do motivate by appealing to ability to help the group
  • Do praise and reinforce by emphasizing importance to group/organization
  • Do manage stress by listening
  • Do pay attention and positively comment on the ‘little things’ she does.
  • Do build rapport by asking appropriate non-work related questions

To Manage Venusians: DON’T

  • Don’t solve problems too quickly (listen first)
  • Don’t focus exclusively on Tasks and ignore the relationship
  • Don’t wait for Venusians to bring up problems-ask about their concerns
  • Don’t withhold positive feedback

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